Bible study on teen dating

A specialness that implies he doesn’t do this with a lot of other girls, and she doesn’t do this with a lot of other boys. I can imagine an exceptional situation in our culture where two young people are extraordinarily mature and spiritual and marriage is planned for age eighteen — right after high school.In other words, pretty quickly people who are doing things together because they like each other are going to feel some sense of proprietary action here, some possessiveness, a kind of desire for some special focus or qualified commitment, not marriage, not engagement, but something else. My generation said, “going steady.” Now that seems to imply something that to me is absolutely natural. Such relationships seem perfectly natural and good. The question becomes, “Is it wise for a sixteen-year-old to step into that river that flows towards marriage? That would be, it seems to me, a remarkable exception that proves the wisdom of the rule — namely, that the maturity level of teenagers is not great enough to make such massive decisions.

Falling in love is one of the greatest experiences in the world.

I was just rereading a letter I wrote to Noël from seminary three months before we were married. What makes it so great is that God has blessed it with an appointed and thrilling consummation called marriage.

Did you know that 90% of 8-16 years old have viewed pornography online? Not only have they heard about everything you're afraid to say... You can grab that stat and more like it from So without further ado, here's our Pro Tips on the matter: God loves them because God is love. No matter what we do or who we are - God's love isn't based on what we do or who we are. You're gonna talk about a lot of stuff that provides Satan with an opportunity to accuse.

You want to lay this on thick and protect them from feeling condemnation.

Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7:2, “Because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.” In other words, sexual relations are for the marriage covenant, not for the engaged couple and not for casual dating relationships.

That view will, of course, set a Christian young person wonderfully and wildly apart from the view that is pervasive in culture and in media — namely, that it is perfectly acceptable to have sex outside marriage with one provision: that it be consensual.

What I think that implies for high school is that young people should be encouraged to do things in groups that include both young men and young women, but that they hold back from pairing off.

I would encourage Josh and other teenagers who might be listening that if they don’t see the wisdom in this, you should listen carefully to your parents and follow their counsel.

Once upon a time, young people married much more commonly at age seventeen, eighteen, and nineteen, or even earlier in some cultures.

My parents were nineteen and eighteen when they married.

For 33 years, he served as pastor of Bethlehem Baptist Church, Minneapolis, Minnesota.

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